The way to make a man addicted to you is the same as the way to make him fall in love with you. The word 'make' is subjective here, as you can't force a man to find you irresistible and lovable, and nor would you probably want to. One of the great things about love is that a person who really adores you does so out of choice, rather than because he or she has to. However, you can make sure all the right circumstances are in place to give a man a real chance of deciding he can't live without you.
Have you ever heard the saying that if you love someone you need to let them go in order to see if they return to you, meaning that they love you back? Well freedom in a relationships a little like that concept, only the freedom we're talking about isn't to be free to be promiscuous or a rotten date. It's the freedom to be a separate human being from your partner.
Studies show that one of the things about potential dates which worries men most is that they may try to repress their freedom, and prevent them from spending time with friends. If you want a man to find you irresistible it's best to trust him enough, and respect him enough to see him spending social time with pals as part and parcel of your relationship.
# Relaxed attitude
While being serious about a man, you can also have a relaxed attitude, in that you don't try and rush your relationship and push the boundaries before it's time. Even though studies reveal that men can fall in love after just three dates, they also show that men are likely to fall back out of love if their date is clingy, and drops constant talk about the possibility of marriage into conversations.
Apparently men are turned on by women who are positive and happy, and turned off by those who are negative and whine, and who can blame them. If you want to catch a man and get him to be irresistibly addicted to you, smile and be happy more often, and leave negativity at the door.
# Don't be critical
No one, man or woman, enjoys being criticised. There may be times when you can see a man could do well to improve himself in some way, and imagine that by informing him you'd be doing him a favor. However, most men see criticism as tantamount to rejection and failure. It's probably hard to find a woman who constantly points out your faults attractive, or to imagine they're the love of your life.
# Don't nag
Along the same lines as criticism is nagging. Women don't generally see what they're doing in this way. In fact, when they have to keep repeating themselves by asking a man to get on and do something they think he should be doing, they generally feel frustrated and upset about it. The strange thing is though, that men feel the same way on the receiving end. They find being nagged makes them annoyed and anxious too.
Getting a man to be addicted to you requires that you break away from old, stereotypical ways of behaving, if that's what you're prone to, and adopt a healthy attitude which regards freedom, happiness and a stress free existence as providing a great foundation for an ideal relationship.
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